There is a well-known good daughter-in-law in the neighborhood next door. The old woman in the neighborhood fell down, and her daughter-in-law served him every day. Now her legs are getting better and she stays with her mother-in-law after work. Her mother-in-law herself said that she married a daughter-in-law who is even younger than her daughter.
The mother-in-law and mother-in-law all admire such a good daughter-in-law. When they looked at the back of the good daughter-in-law, they all sighed: "Oh …… If I were lying on the bed, my daughter-in-law would not know what would be to me…"
{99Mrs. Chen was also very excited. Mrs. Chen had only one son and finally married her daughter-in-law. But the daughter-in-law was delicious and she liked to help her son when she had something to do. Where could she have a daughter-in-law like her! On the weekend, Mrs. Chen was riding in the wei Pavilion and happened to meet a good daughter-in-law from the opposite door. She was taking her child to the park to play.
Mrs. Chen said, "Your mother-in-law is so happy. I met you, a good daughter-in-law."
Mrs. Chen talked about her daughter-in-law and said all her bitterness... She just listened and smiled to the good daughter-in-law in the door.
When Mrs. Chen finished speaking, the good daughter-in-law said, "Uncle, can I ask you a few questions? Don't be angry."
The good daughter-in-law asked, "What are you feeling when she gets your son to pick her up late after get off work?"
Mrs. Chen said, "You are so angry, my son is so tired when he works one day. It's not that she doesn't know that, so she asked my son to pick her up?" "
The good daughter-in-law asked again: "Your daughter-in-law is in confinement. Have you taken good care of her?? Do you have the feeling of taking care of her?"
Mrs. Chen said even more: "I feel that my young life is in a blessed place. I don't have to do anything, but I still shout tired or bored. Isn't it just a child? At that time, we were not so happy. We had to give birth to a few days after giving birth. Going to the field to work!"
The good daughter-in-law said, "In fact, I am the same as your daughter-in-law."
Mrs. Chen said incredibly: "How is it possible? Who doesn't know you are a good daughter-in-law!"
The good daughter-in-law said, "I didn't know how to do it before. When I was helping my mother-in-law in the kitchen, she always asked me to go to the TV and said that she could be busy with her own time. When I got off work late, my mother-in-law would ask my husband to pick me up. She said it was not safe for a woman to come home too late and insisted on sending me off. When I was pregnant and gave birth to a baby, my mother-in-law took care of me every day, and didn't let me do anything. She prepared everything for me and my baby, waiting to welcome my baby, and took care of me in vain."
Mrs. Chen felt a little embarrassed when she heard these words.
The good daughter-in-law said again: "When I was in confinement, for a whole month, my mother-in-law brought me every day and chatted with me when I had time. At night, my mother-in-law helped me take care of my child. She said that the most difficult time for a woman to have sex was at this time. Caesarean section was too painful, and she was injured. She looked at the TV and injured her eyes. She went out to hurt her body. She lived like a year."
Mrs. Chen lowered her head at this time, as if she was thinking.
"My mother-in-law often says that mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, and daughter-in-law, ten years to see her. Now everyone only sees me treat her like my mother, but no one sees her. In fact, she has always treated me like a daughter. Auntie, do you think I met such a good mother-in-law, how can I not be a good daughter-in-law?"
Mrs. Chen seemed to have understood some things and murmured, "Yes, I will put my heart in it."
Ten years of looking at the mother-in-law, ten years of looking at the daughter-in-law. Basically, the first ten years of marriage are the most difficult and most needing help when the daughter-in-law is the most difficult and needing help. Just enter another strange family, feel uncomfortable morning sickness during pregnancy, needing care during confinement, and are too busy to take care of others to take care of the child……
Most mother-in-law are still healthy and tough in the past ten years, and nothing is so worrying about after retirement. It is also the best time to cultivate relationships with the daughter-in-law. When the daughter-in-law just enters the door and needs help the most, can the daughter-in-law not be grateful?
Ten years later, the daughter-in-law has been able to adapt to the life of her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law's physical relationship has begun to decline. This is when the mother-in-law needs a daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law does not take the responsibility of her mother-in-law at the beginning, which daughter-in-law can be willing to be good to her mother-in-law at this time?
In the years when the marriage started, the mother-in-law was very responsible. If the family was harmonious and the mother-in-law was satisfied, the daughter-in-law would be willing to be a good daughter-in-law, right?