It is much easier to actively create the world you want than to find a perfect and suitable job
The owner's thinking is not just a verb of "wanting to be yourself"; such a mind and spirit requires deep self-awareness and correct understanding of yourself: being able to affirm and develop your own strengths, understand and accept your own shortcomings and abilities, and still have great hope in understanding.
They can grasp the rhythm of their progress: including the direction and speed of their career development.
The boundaries are clear and beliefs will not be affected and interfered by external noise and information, and have a mature mind, and will not be controlled by one's own inner anxiety and lack of control. Have the powerful power to capture the winds of your own life.
I had also lived in a social life in a large group company. When I was complaining to the pigs and Lei customers at work, I felt that I was just a lord who had no father or mother, and a small screw and tool that was transported in a large machine. No one really cared about or paid attention to my work. (By the day, the company is not your home.) I never thought that I could regain my power to lead, just hold a group with my colleagues to keep warm, make complaints, and keep replaying the miserable plots of the victims. In fact, it is really easy to find someone who can be tied together. Most office workers are super-successful when they only need to build a company or a supervisor. After all, criticizing others is always much simpler than working hard on their own.
I have also experienced such stages, constantly expounding all kinds of negative emotions and complaining about the world, but after a while, I gradually discovered that nothing has changed. The same problem, the same person, I stayed in a stable and arduous painful drama, looking forward to the dismissal after get off work, but the next day I had to face the unsolved workplace.
"This is not a way to go on! After complaining, my life is still painful." This kind of insight gradually came to my heart. From that moment on, I began to regain my career leadership that I should have existed, plan, decide, work hard, and be responsible for myself.
At that time, I found that I used to be just waiting.
Expect good things to happen, great things to happen, but I just wait for these things to happen. Later I realized: it is easier to act than to wait, creating opportunities for cooperation is easier than to encounter dream jobs, it is easier to actively influence the plot than to passively accept the script, and it is easier to first pay for others than to have friends and know others.
Any effort towards the goal you want will accelerate your dream reality, but waiting will not happen, waiting for nothing will only wait for disappointment.
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