The role of "Kan Jia" by artist Tong Huan plays the role of "Han Jia" by the full wife (family host) and the full mother, has been attracting attention recently. Netizens have proposed the topic of "Is the full wife considered an independent woman?" and has caused a lot of discussion on Weibo.
"Thirty Only"Jean Jia is a full-time mother of the new era. She has set her husband, children and herself in an orderly manner {999 9}is very good. This character is as famous as her name. Not only is the intellectual but also a profession, she also overturned the imagination of everyone's previous imagination of full-time mothers. She is strong, ambitious and action-oriented, completely different from the stereotyped women who marry into wealthy houses, or women who are forced to become full-time mothers by their family because they have no choice.
In "Thirty Only", Gunjia and her husband Xu Huanshan founded a smoke company together. After the child was born, she chose to go home to be a full-time mother, but she had to participate in all major and small matters in the company and make plans.
At the same time, she attaches great importance to the cultivation of her son Xu Ziyan's learning habits and life rules. In order to let her son go to a prestigious school, she used her best methods to help the president of the Batong Committee, Mrs. Wang, and let her son join the best kindergarten next door to the community.
Although he is a full-time mother, Gu Jia also tried his best to fight for his husband's business and kept fighting for him. When Xu Huanshan's company was in crisis, the core employee resigned from his job. In order to help her husband, Gunjia carefully approached his wife and handled the wounds for her. As her soul soup, she successfully won the order of Mrs. Yu's home park smoker and helped her get rid of the crisis.
Such a full-time mother has a different image than before. He exercises and prepares breakfast every day, and makes her husband, children and herself very well. It can even be said that what she does already includes her career mother, husband's business and family host. Isn't this an independent woman?
A full-time mother and family host are considered independent women?Perhaps the image of Guai is a little distant from the general full-time mother, which has caused new thoughts on the impression of the existing full-time mother and the family host. "Is the full-time wife an independent woman?"
Netizens alternately appearing. One is that they believe that without economic income, they cannot talk about independence; the other group of netizens emphasizes that as long as they become a full-time mother is a personal choice and have not lost themselves, they can be considered independent.
Don't think that the full wife is an independent Weibo netizen believes, "If the full wife is an independent woman, are there any unindependent female surnames?" "I think it is common to know that the full wife is not an independent person. Even economics cannot be independent, so where is independence from?" "The only choice is independent. Do you choose to be a full wife? Do you still have the ability to choose to be a professional woman in the future?"
Although the comment angle is biased, it really reflects the voices of some social levels. However, the discussion of the full wife is an independent woman, which brings more levels and heights.
Netizens said, "Look at how everyone defines this "independence". In most cases, being able to survive is considered independent! "Economic sources are independent, and there are many people working at home."
If we discuss this view from the perspective of economic independence, many mothers with full-time positions will also work from home. And to be honest, if you have a general salary of 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, you can choose to take children at home, save milk powder and childcare costs, and make your baby feel more secure. "Isn't mothers taking children with all their jobs economically independent? Isn't these jobs not work? Shouldn't they be paid?"
The actress, who plays the heroine Gunjia, Posted on Weibo, "Is the full-time wife considered an independent woman? Is it!" She quoted a passage from a friend-in-law in the Internet, "The full-time wife does not work and has no economic sources. She holds 20 professional roles such as nanny, chef, and cleaner at home, and is not even easier than professional women. So are these full-time wives not considered independent women?"
However, although this is true, it is very true that when someone asks you what you are doing, who can have the courage to tell others loudly: "My job is full-time mother!" The sounds that often answers are all about lack of foundation, hesitation, or quick change of topics. A passage from Kazuya in the
drama, bloody and silenced this state of perseverance, "After becoming a mother, your biggest feeling is that you are frustrated, frustrated in a headband called Mom. No matter how your figure is distorted and your emotions are deteriorating, these are not the worst. On the first day of confinement, I suddenly felt that Kazuya was dead, and the one who survived was Hu Ziyan's mother." She said that this was the practice of being a mother.
So in the end, Kaneka still wants to have a career and get a sense of accomplishment that belongs to her. She learned that Mrs. Li, who was in the wife circle, was going to make her own tea factory. After doing market research, she decided to ask Mrs. Li to take over the tea factory business. That night she was so happy that she couldn't sleep.
When a mother is a kind of saint. But that's how mothers are. From the moment they hear the first cry of their child, they are destined to give up on themselves for love.
Finally, I used a good sentence to encourage all the hard-working mothers: "The essence of life is that there are thousands of difficulties after a thousand difficulties, and fortunately I have never lacked the courage to face." Let us cheer for ourselves and children together!
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