Don t want outsiders to touch their babies. Mom can use 3 tricks to avoid being embarrassed and treating the health of her children.

The little baby's white and tender look is quite lovely, but for his parents who are eager to protect, he must not want strangers to touch their children without permission. Regarding this problem, Japanese mercenary and keen teacher Toshikako Higuchi teaches everyone how to "resist flexible" in the article, and set the lower boundary line with the other party without causing the situation to become embarrassed.

When you take your baby out, you may encounter many people coming to say hello, saying that the baby is so cute, and some people will suddenly engage in physical contact, such as touching the head, pinching the face, or even kissing. Regardless of whether the other party is in good faith, such behavior is not only disrespectful to the baby's parents, but also may cause health problems and harm the baby's health.

Faced with this situation, it is better than the positive ones In case of conflict or turning away directly, Higuchi Tomokako also recommends that parents adopt the "nothing method to avoid the atmosphere" to keep the atmosphere relaxed and avoid further movements between the other party, including the following specific methods:

1. Three steps to refuse to look at the look of the person: Smile, bow, turn

When you see the other party reaching out your hand, your father and mother can naturally pick up the baby, or turn the baby car, and smile to greet and say thank you.

If you want to avoid sudden movement of the baby's position, you can explain it to the other party, such as: "Sorry, he seems to want to sleep", "I'm afraid he will cry if I touch him." The implication is to let the other party know that the baby is in a fragile state. Most people usually know to keep a distance from the baby after hearing it.

2. Transfer the other party's attention

Another technique is to transfer the other party's attention from the baby, for example, ask: "It's so hot today, do you live nearby?" Or "Do you often come here?" Use this method to shift the conversation from the baby to the center of adults to distract the attention of the baby, so naturally there is no need to worry that the other party will further want to touch the child.

3. Take protective measures from the beginning

If the baby is difficult to be touched by outsiders from the beginning, the family will not need to worry.

For example, putting down the tent of the baby car on the outside, or using a squid cover can protect children from contact with the outside world. Or use a baby's back belt, and when a stranger approaches, you can open the distance from the other party in time, or let the baby face himself in the direction to reduce outsiders' touching on his face or head.